Trauma is any experience that overwhelms your coping abilities and leaves a lasting imprint on how safe, connected, and in control you feel. It isn’t limited to catastrophic events. Many people carry the effects of chronic stressors or relational wounds that others never saw. Naming that truth reduces stigma and opens the door to care that meets you where you are.
Common sources include childhood adversity and neglect, emotional, physical, or sexual abuse, accidents or injuries, medical procedures or sudden illness, loss or complicated grief, community or identity-based harm, and high-stress work environments. Each person’s story is unique, and effective care honors that uniqueness while offering clear, evidence-based paths forward.
Trauma can touch every part of life. You might notice intrusive memories or nightmares, anxiety, irritability, or feeling “shut down.” Concentration and sleep can suffer. The body often carries the load, appearing as muscle tension, headaches, stomach issues, or a constant startle response. Relationships can feel strained, with patterns of withdrawal, people-pleasing, or conflict. Work may become harder due to burnout, hypervigilance, or perfectionism.
None of this means you are broken. It means your system has adapted to survive. With the right support, those adaptations can soften, and stability, connection, and confidence can grow.